Green Flags In A Relationship 🌹❤️

We always pinpoint and focus on the red flags 🚩 in a relationship, and tend to overlook the possible pros of our relationships, “The Green Flags “ 🟩. Green Flags In relationships are the positive things , the pros of the relationships, how the relationship makes you feel in a positive manner . Green Flags are also the great qualities of the relationship . Green Flags are key factors in a healthy relationship.

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Tips & Example Of Green Flags :

🟩•The ability to communicate openly and freely about ones feelings , thoughts and emotions.

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🟩• You & Your Partner ; honor each-other personal space and privacy .

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🟩•You & Your Partner : Have an established self-care routine for yourselves that help keep you center , grounded and refreshed . The gives rooms for rejuvenating and releasing for you and your partner individually, so you can come together and feel wholesome .

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🟩•You & Your Partner : Stops doing things or saying that promote uncomfortable feelings in the relationship out of respect for you/their feelings .

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🟩•You & Your Partner : Compromise : Compromise is important in a relationship because it allows you and your partner to come to a middle - ground / agreement that benefits not just one , but both of you.

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🟩•The Ability to have civilized arguments:  Arguments are  natural during relationships , and so are how they take place . An argument doesn’t have to be explosive and wild . An argument can simply be a talk about a problem . When these arguments take place be sure you are a  listen , be attentive , be empathetic and be receptive .

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🟩•Support : Support of your goals and dreams is a huge green flag in relationships. This is often a sign that your partner believes in you and your capabilities to achieve your goals .

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🟩• Encouragement : Not everyday will our partners be 100% . It is important to give words of encouragement , because words have power that shape our reality , thoughts and feelings. Providing your partner with encouragement on their down days and even on their best days will help improve their mental health .

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🟩•Affection : Affection is a huge part of what makes a romantic relationship, romantic ! It’s important that you and your partner make it a priority to show love and affection . Showing affection  causes feelings of certainty , safety and peace in your relationship .Be sure to make time to give words of reassure , gifts , physical care , surprises and romantic evenings , or simply do something you know your partner will appreciate . Think about what THEIR love language is 

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🟩•Having Fun: It’s important to laugh and enjoy things with your partner this helps release density from the relationship. Do you have a mutual hobby you can do together ?Do you watch funny movies together ?Do you make jokes with your partner ?

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🟩•Accepting : It’s important for a partner to be accepting of your past ,  who you are what you desire to be and what you desire to achieve. In order to be our true selves in relationships we must feel like we are accepted and safe to do so . Being open minded and accepting in your relationship can not only help the relationship blossom but the friendship between you and your partner to grow . It turn making the relationship more fun and exciting .

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🟩•Respect & Fair Treatment : Despite The Duration Of Relationship , we should always treat our partners with respect and fair treatment , although sometimes we may slip up on a bad day , say things we don’t mean or project our densities onto our partners it is important to minimize this . Treat your partner how you want to be treated .

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🟩• Apology’s :The ability to give a sincere apologize in a relationship is mandatory . If you wronged your partner or made a mistake apologies are apart of mending and healing  that mistake . Yet it’s important to take action to make things better and provide changed behavior after an apology .

🟩• Healing : it’s important for you and your partner to actively heal from past relationships and situations so old resentments and old traumas don’t spill into the connection between you two. Do you talk about your triggers?Do you talk about your needs ? Do you talk about past relationships and why they ended ? Do you talk about childhood Trauma ? Do You Talk About What Your Partner Needs To Feel Safe ?


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